‘Men get breast cancer too’ | Ohio daughters raising awareness about breast cancer in men in honor of their father
Kelly Crippen and Denise Smith want to make men aware of breast cancer in honor of their father Denis Crippen, who died in 2003.
TOLEDO, Ohio – “Men get breast cancer too.” This is the message two local women want to spread the word after their father dies.
As the Susan G. Komen Foundation continues to invest more in research for men with breast cancer, this year’s Toledo Race for the Cure will remember Dennis Crippen.
The first thing sisters Kelly Crippen and Denise Smith will tell about their father Dennis is that he …
“He was funny. He was a prankster,” said Denise.
And it was this joking ghost that Kelly and Denise say their dad took away the seven years he spent battling breast cancer, a disease almost unknown in men when he was diagnosed in 1996.
“One percent of men (were) diagnosed in 96. When he died in 2003 it was up to 6% of men,” Denise said.
Denise said the doctors didn’t discover the cancer until her father noticed he had an inverted nipple and then pain. He waited six months to have it checked.
Dennis had a mastectomy, radiation, chemotherapy, and other treatments and procedures traditionally designed for women. Dennis always joked about that.
“All of the drugs and stuff he was taking for chemo had never been tested on men. So he came home and told me his period was going to be late. He shouldn’t try to get pregnant while on these drugs shouldn’t be … breastfeeding, “said Denise.
Dennis was in remission for four years. Then doctors found a tumor in his throat. The cancer had spread to his prostate, kidneys, and bones.
Dennis died in 2003, just weeks before his 53rd birthday.
“I miss him every day. I have a 10-year-old son who will never meet his grandfather,” said Kelly.
“Not a day goes by that I don’t think about him,” added Denise.
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Kelly and Denise got matching tattoos in honor of their father, a man who worked on the railroad and loved to ride a motorcycle – activities Kelly learned for him.
“There’s a freedom to be on the bike and I could understand why he loved it,” said Kelly.
His daughters said that while Dennis was funny and a biker, he was also shy and private. They joked that he might be a little mad at them for nominating him for the Race for the Cure’s “In Memory of” award.
But they want him to know something else.
“I would tell him I nominated him because I was proud of him. The way he handled everything,” said Kelly.
Kelly and Denise also want to raise awareness of breast cancer in men.
In 2020, Susan G. Komen estimates there will be more than 2,600 new breast cancer diagnoses and 520 deaths.
“Men get breast cancer too. We learned the hard way as a family what this disease does to people,” said Kelly.
“Men, get examined. Dad thinks he waited too long, ”Denise said.
Denise said that there has been progress since her father died and she and her family will continue to support Comen’s mission to fund more research and find a cure.
“They have their own mammography machines now. They come out with their own breast cancer tape. I hope they will do more tests on the chemo drugs they use. Because like I said my dad did I don’t know” said Dennise.
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